Nothing brings people together like good food and good company. I really enjoy hosting dinner parties for my friends and family and I have organized enough of them to know what it really takes to ensure that everyone leaves with full stomachs and a smile on their face.
Whether you're cooking for a group of twenty close friends or five foodies, planning the menu is perhaps the most important aspect of the process. When preparing a family style meal or one where each person is served individual plates, dietary preferences must always be considered. A few years ago, I was a vegan for several months and I learned a whole new area of food that was unfamiliar to me. Be sure to ask your guests whether or not they have a food allergy or simply will not taste a certain ingredient.
I usually serve at least five courses for the meal and timing is extremely important.
- Preparing your ingredients the previous night will save you a great deal of time. Peeling and cutting the vegetables for every dish and storing them in separate glass bowls or containers wrapped with plastic wrap is a good approach. For produce that tends to change color when exposed to air, soak them in water with a little bit of lemon juice.
Roasted asparagus with a mushroom beschamel sauce
- Make sure that you have plenty of plates or serving platters and silverware that are consistent in appearance.
- Offer a selection of beverages or have your guests bring something. Be considerate of the drink and food pairings because that detail can either make or break a dish. I never allow my guests to bring beer because it tends to lower the quality of the overall meal. I only allow red wine to be paired with red meats and white wine to be paired with seafood or poultry.
Marinated shrimp with sauteed onions served over brown rice
- For any meal, the food should always be served hot or at least very warm. Timing the completion of each course is perhaps the most challenging task but there are a few remedies to ease the process.
- Serves small dishes such as crackers with cheese or stuffed mushrooms to keep your guests occupied while you prepare the rest of the meal.
- Do not cook meat until you are absolutely ready because reheating it will only overcook it and diminish its flavor. Once its ready, allow the meat to rest for a few minutes in order for the juices to redistribute. Remember, juices equals flavor.
- Finishing the cooking process in the oven is an excellent method to decrease the amount of chaos in the kitchen. Sear both sides of the meat in a skillet with a heat proof handle and slide the entire thing in the oven.

